A space to belong before you’ve arrived.
The Not There Yet Project is a community-first space for women navigating life transitions, identity shifts, and personal growth in adulthood. Not lost, not behind, just becoming.
A place to pause, reflect, and grow without pressure, perfection, or pretending.
What is The Not There Yet Project?
The Not There Yet Project is a community, podcast, and newsletter for people in the messy middle of adulthood. Those moments where life looks fine on the outside, but feels unsettled underneath.
It’s for anyone navigating change: career shifts, creativity, wellbeing, identity, or simply asking, “Is this it - or is there more?”
There’s no finish line here.
Just space to become - together.
More than a community. A place to land.
This is a space for people who are doing “well on paper” but quietly questioning what comes next.
Through shared stories, gentle reflections, and moments of real connection, The Not There Yet Project meets you where you are - not where you think you should be.
No fixing. No highlight reels.
Just honest progress, quiet growth, and the reminder that nothing has gone wrong.
Why this exists.
"Hi, I’m Bethany - the founder of The Not There Yet Project.
Like many people here, I spent years doing what I thought I should - ticking boxes, chasing milestones, and wondering why something still felt missing.
The Not There Yet Project began as a personal note to myself - of noticing, questioning, and becoming - and slowly grew into a shared space for others navigating similar life transitions.
Not a brand. Not a blueprint.
A space we get to grow into together."
Notes from the Not There Yet - The Podcast
Notes from the Not There Yet is a podcast about navigating adulthood, identity, and personal growth - in real time.
Through honest conversations with people building meaningful lives, the podcast explores what it really looks like to be in the middle of becoming.
No overnight success stories. No polished answers. Just thoughtful, human journeys from the messy middle.
Listen if you want to feel less alone in your own becoming.
Stories from the Middle.
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From Imposter to Inspiration: Dr Katie Ford’s J...
Bethany WrightHow a vet turned imposter syndrome into a voice of empowerment - and built a movement by choosing honesty over perfection.
From Imposter to Inspiration: Dr Katie Ford’s J...
Bethany WrightHow a vet turned imposter syndrome into a voice of empowerment - and built a movement by choosing honesty over perfection.
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Millions of Plates and Counting: Sarah Healey’s...
Bethany WrightSome experts chase headlines - Sarah Healey builds trust. Evidence-led, human, and grounded in real life, Sarah has spent over a decade quietly shaping how families eat. Her work proves that...
Millions of Plates and Counting: Sarah Healey’s...
Bethany WrightSome experts chase headlines - Sarah Healey builds trust. Evidence-led, human, and grounded in real life, Sarah has spent over a decade quietly shaping how families eat. Her work proves that...
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Beats, Plates and Baby Bottles: Jamie Anne Brad...
Bethany WrightJamie Anne Bradbury is a Manchester-based DJ, personal trainer and founder of Fit Food Media whose story is powered by one mantra: say yes before you feel ready.
Beats, Plates and Baby Bottles: Jamie Anne Brad...
Bethany WrightJamie Anne Bradbury is a Manchester-based DJ, personal trainer and founder of Fit Food Media whose story is powered by one mantra: say yes before you feel ready.
Stories from the middle.
The Not There Yet Project shares real stories from people navigating life transitions - the steady builders, the brave pivots, the ones showing up without applause.
If there’s a story that deserves space here, we’d love to hear it.
Join The Not Yets
Join The Not Yets - a gentle weekly space to pause and reconnect.
You’ll receive thoughtful reflections, real stories, and quiet perspective shifts for anyone navigating adulthood, change, creativity, or personal growth.
No pressure to keep up.
No expectation to be anything other than where you are.